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The Golden Thread

A space to unravel, remember and reweave

💛 $10 NZD a week · Come as you are · Stay as long as you need


🕊️ Welcome

You are not broken.
You adapted.

What you have called your personality may, in truth, be your body's way of protecting you.
Layers formed in response to your environment, to stress, to survival.

Here, we gently unravel those layers not to fix you, but to remember who you were before you had to become who you needed to be.

This is a space where both children and adults are seen through the lens of:
Respect rather than correction. Connection rather than control.


🌿 What Lives Inside This Space

👨‍👩‍👧 For Parents

Support Rooted in Trust and Development

Children are born whole.

They unfold when we step back and witness.
When we create safety without urgency.
When we allow rather than mould.

Parenting here is not about performance or perfection. It is about presence.

You will find support to:

  • Understand your child’s behaviour through the lens of biology rather than blame

  • Co-regulate rather than control

  • Honour each child’s natural pace, rhythm and wisdom

Your child is not giving you a hard time.
They are having a hard time.
And you can meet that with steadiness rather than shame.


🧬 For Adults

Courses to Reclaim Your Self

Inside you live many selves.
These are parts that once protected you.
Stories that once defined you.
Patterns that once kept you safe.

In this space, you will be guided to gently:

  • Return to the body

  • Explore your internal landscape

  • Repattern what no longer serves you

You will learn to:

  • Work with your nervous system rather than against it

  • Recognise subconscious beliefs and reprogramme them with compassion

  • Move from survival adaptations into secure, embodied authenticity

Healing is not a mindset.
It is a remembering.
A return to your original blueprint.


🌀 For the Body and Soul

Practices to Weave Wholeness

Not everything needs to be processed through words.
Sometimes healing comes through:

  • Movement

  • Stillness

  • Play

  • Laughter

  • Tears

You are invited into:

  • Gentle, embodied practices to ground and restore

  • Creative exploration through storytelling, breath and intuitive expression

  • Rituals of remembrance for those walking a spiritual path of feminine wisdom and sacred return

Your wholeness does not need to be earned.
Only revealed.


🤍 You Are Not Alone in This

I do not walk this path alone. Neither should you.

I weave with many other practitioners and guides.
Inside, you will find some of their voices and stories too.

You may listen to one and feel something stir. A knowing that this is who you want to walk with next.

Trust that.
We are not in competition.
We are part of the same jigsaw puzzle.
Pieces of your return to yourself.

You are free to follow the thread that calls to you.
That is the work. That is the way home.


🌗 A Gentle Way to Begin

For many, the idea of a membership can feel confronting.
Too much of a commitment.
Too fast. Too soon.

That is why I offer one week's access to everything for $25.

This gives you time to explore, feel into the space and see whether it resonates.
There is no pressure to continue.

I am always building new content.
What you find here is constantly evolving.


📜 How It Works

  • $10 NZD a week

  • Come alone or gather a group (you may divide the cost for shared support)

  • No pressure, no timeline

  • Stay for a week or stay for as long as you need

  • Self-paced courses with optional live gatherings

  • Nervous system safe. Spiritually grounded. Psychologically sound.


🪷 This Is For You If…

  • You are a parent wanting to nurture rather than control

  • You are unravelling from survival-based patterns

  • You are seeking deeper self-understanding

  • You are ready to soften, listen and reorient from the inside out

  • You have tried to fix yourself. Now you are ready to return to yourself


🧶 What Makes This Different

  • We work with the body’s wisdom, not against it

  • We honour development over discipline in both children and adults

  • We value safety over speed, and connection over performance

  • We invite creative play, stillness and storytelling as valid paths to healing

  • We welcome both the sacred and the scientific

  • We believe vulnerability is not weakness. It is the threshold of transformation

  • We honour collaboration over hierarchy. You are trusted to follow your own pace and path


🌌 The Invitation

There is no end goal here.
No final destination.

Only a slow and steady reweaving of your nervous system, your voice, your identity and your spirit.

Come as you are.
Bring your chaos, your clarity, your questions and your joy.
Let us walk each other home, one thread at a time.


Join The Golden Thread

  • $10 NZD a week

  • Or try one week’s full access for $25

Try a sneaky peak

7 days for $25.00 - no membership

I wanted to create something where you would be accompanied on your journey. New information added weekly with the addition of LIVE support each week

Each of these mini courses will build over time, taking you through what InsideOUT is made up of. This is conscious parenting and conscious ECE teaching where there is no perfection instead we all learn and grow together.

What was said after only 1 week

.Highly highly recommend signing up for this course. One week in and I'm loving it. The first talk was AMAZING. Donna is an absolute wealth of knowledge - like she says in this video she has literally spent thousands on courses to now bring this info to us - and it shows. She really knows her stuff, and also really gets what real life is like as a parent and ECE teacher. Donna has worked with hundreds of parents and teachers over the years, and has walked some hard journeys herself and with others. So what she teaches is very realistic, and will make a real difference to your life, how you parent/teach, how you relate to others, and how you are with yourself. I'm so excited that this course is finally here, and urge everyone to jump in and see where it takes you!

Membership grows as you do

When you get inside you will see that the membership is built up of lots of little courses. I wanted to create it in that fashion for you so that as the weeks past you could easily find where your GOLDEN THREAD had taken you. Whether Attachment theory, Nervous system, Glimmer or child development the modules will be there for you. The STRONGEST THREAD IS held by Breaking the chains. Check in there for the weekly instalment.

Mini Course - Bridges to security

Starting October 2025

The second mini-series of the membership. If you understood how important attachment theory was not just for the child but for the adult, you would not be missing this series.

A sneaky peak

7 days to look around and decide it membership is right for you

Sujata

Donna is 🤩 amazing… you need to sit with her once to know you need to sit with her more… it’s not just about being your best as a teacher or parent but as a person- Donna you have helped me immensely in changing how I feel, how I interact, how things affect or not affect me❤️❤️❤️ Love how well Donna listens but not just to your words but your facial cues and body language. She has an uncanny sense of ‘reading between the lines’ and she makes more than just sense! My style of teaching has improved as well as my relationships all around me - life changing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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